Becoming like the enemy...

One of our biggest traps when facing an abusive enemy, is the contruct of our perception of that enemy -- how to avoid not becoming like the enemy. This liberating truth is always striking and so against our nature: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you wi...ll heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."